BEYOND STRESSED!!!!

We found out very disturbing news on Friday, that Matt will NOT be able to return to Wayne Assemby even tho they assured him and reassured him, yes, you have your call back rights. They then tell us well we are sorry if we missinformed you but you signed off on your call back rights and you can't come back.

Which- he was told to sign off on his call back rights because they told him once you go to Maumee and graduate you won't be able to go back to Wayne so you might as well sign this and take the moving allowance- you'd be stupid not to they said.

Yes- hindsight we should have investigated more but we didn't and he trusted this person and was also told Maumee was running great and would probably never close. So we werent worried, we figured what a blessing your so much closer to home- ten years of driving to Wayne got old!!

So very long story short we have wasted a few weeks cuz we didnt think we needed to worry about a buyout cuz he has call back rights and he's going to Wayne. so why would we waste our time finding out about the different buyouts.

We are now left with 3 weeks to make a very huge decision without all our questions answered, cuz you cant get a hold of people and people dont have answers cuz this kind of thing never happened there before.

We have to decide bewtween a lump sum buyout and you walk away from Ford but that money would only last 1- 1 1/2 years

Educational buyout- go back to school for 4 years, they pay, med benefits and 50% of your pay. But you have to be enrolled full time at school and he would still have to try to work fulltime too!!

Flowback- meaning you flowback into the system IF there are openings.

It is all so complicated because this is just a teeny tiny bit of it, there are so many other factors and rules, lots of rules and lots of deadlines- way to many to explain.

Our biggest problem is we have 3 weeks so we do not have time on our side. We have God on our side- thank God!

Ford is a great job he makes better money than he will walking out of a 4 year degree but its not what he really would want to do - he doesnt love it but its security.

We are praying and I know people are praying for us but it is so much pressure to know we have to make such an important decison in that amount of time and hope it was the right one.

Like I said everything has deadlines and you cant change your mind once you sign up thats it.

Also trying to figure out some hard medical stuff going on and as I said I am so fried all I can do is cry and pray between sobs.

Well I have lots of praying to go do so bye for now.
Thank you for those praying please dont stop!